May D’s baby mama,popular blogger, Linda Ikeji, explaining how her lover of 8years turned her into a punching bag. Read her mail below.
My
name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you put me on ur blog about
3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian artist name on my body, I’m MayD’s
baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some
important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my
story as as possible.
I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were together from the
get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For
many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported
him, financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in
Babcock we passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was
struggling and incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to
supporting him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a
semester’s tuition to
studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for
love right?I practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The
sad part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I did
everything that was within my reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a
while ago, which I took responsibilities for and started to do
diligently..
Now, like most relationships we had major problems
which included the frequent cheating and escapades with girls which I
obviously endured as I was consumed by the “main chick” title. Not that I
was even getting any good thing in
he never for one day acknowledge me, or made me feel like we were in a
relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do whatsoever on my
own, be it business, friendship etc.
The thing I couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat me up at every slightest
he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me up so badly infront of
our little boy all the time. He assaulted me regularly, I suffered
domestic violence in silence, and this last time he beat me up so badly
and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right infront of me. I witnessed
been close to death, I prayed to survive each time he pounced on me,
damaging several properties nd breaking diff stuff on my head.
This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself, who will take
care of my child for me if I die in his hands? Who will he call mother?
Who will stand by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without
thinking of how much time, energy, resources that must have been
wasted….
PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you that want to comment bullshit)……
PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….
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